Entitled coworker demands employee give her their bonus since they don't have kids and ‘don’t seem to need it like she does', employee reports her to HR: ‘I thought we were friends’

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Bar Mor Hazut • Senior Editor
May 27, 2025 7:00 AM EDT

What is the tipping point at which you stop considering your coworkers as just your coworkers and start viewing them as friends?

First, some consider every coworker a friend, as long as you are able to talk about things that are not work-related on a daily basis. It doesn't matter if you never talk to these people outside of the office, as long as you enjoy being around them, you can consider them friends. 

Then, there are those who believe that coworkers become friends as soon as they start seeing them in non-work-related social events. For example, if you decide to go out for drinks after work, the people you go out with become friends, and not solely coworkers.

Lastly, many claim that your coworkers can never be your friends, no matter what. Even if you feel a sense of camaraderie and belonging within the office, it is still every man to themselves, and if you are not too careful, those coworkers you started to consider your friends will betray you, and you will never see it coming.

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  • The employee in the story below might prove the last statement, as they thought their coworker was their friend, but it seems like they were terribly mistaken. It all started when that coworker told this employee that she should get their bonus, because she's a parent, and they are not.

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    My Coworker Asked Me to Give Her My Bonus Because I Don’t Have Kids—what should I do?

    So obviously at first I just laughed assuming it was a joke but she was ddly serious Her point was that I don't have responsibilities and I
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    always seem to be spending and just don't seem to need it like she does. And she does the same work as me anyway.
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    It completely caught me off guard. I literally just stood there next to the kettle with my tea bag mid-air like... what the....?!
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    I feel so used, I feel like she's used everything I've ever told her against me, and taken advantage of me being a nice person - the
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    amount of times I've covered for her when she's left early due to childcare and the extra workload I've had to pick up when she's been going through hard times.
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    I thought we were friends but now it just feels like she was waiting for the right moment to see what she could squeeze out of me or she's literally a narcissist
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    because in what world is it okay to ask someone else to do that? It feels manipulative and almost bu ly-like behaviour
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    with how adamant she was in wanting it. Should I tell my boss or just keep her at arms length now?
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    Kyra Heiker I would recommend reporting it because if you don't document everything it might bite you in - the later.
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    DocumentStreet1452 OP Yes that's a good point who knows what else she might do down the line!
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    ThanosSnapsSlimJims Tell her no. If she presses you, call hr
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    DocumentStreet1452 OP Yes I was thinking this
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    LostinLies1 That is some scandalous behavior.
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    DocumentStreet1452 OP Yes I know crazy!!
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    IcyBarnacle5883 I would just obviously tell her no, and don't lift a finger to help her or cover for her in the future.
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    RedPlastic Dog Laugh at her and just say no. No debate about who needs it. You earned it. She needs to manage her own life and speak to her manager about her bonus if she thinks it's insufficient
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    HiVeMiNdOfStUpld Just say no. You owe them no explanation.
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